If there was ever a success strategy it’s this: Using what life throws at you.
The actress Kate Winslet, who was not classically trained, recently explained that her secret on camera was to ask herself the question, “what can I get for free?” Meaning, if she’s tired, she uses that in the character. If she’s nervous, she puts that into the character. If her arm hurts or her feet are sore, same thing. Instead of thinking, ‘I can’t because…” she takes the same stress, the same factors, the same difficulties and thinks, “What can I do because…”
This was Marcus Aurelius’ strategy too. A strong stomach digests what it eats, he says. A fire turns everything into flame and brightness. We use what happens to us in life because it’s all we’ve got.
We can either be made worse by events outside our control or made better. What will it be? We can try to purchase things at great expense—through our brilliance, through our raw determination, through good luck or whatever—or we can accept and utilize what we’ve been given for free. Which seems like a more cost effective strategy?
Life is going to give us a lot. A lot we don’t want. A lot we wouldn’t choose if we had a choice. All we can do is figure out a way to transform this into material. All we can do is put it into our character, put it into our work. All we can do is use what we get for free.
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